Hm.. maybe I am grumpy! that really isn't fun for me either... i have a headache most days. no matter what I try to move towards there is a NO involved before i get there. And when I do get there, its in need of repair or restoration. Once that process is through I am left holding the tools and the car has taken off in a different direction.
Positive thinking and I are in a boat with holes in it and as much as I bail and bail and bail, the negative is filling up the boat.